Humility: Following Jesus in a Posture of Service
What does it mean to embody humility in a world that prizes self-assertion and personal success? Can we have humility and success at the same time as we serve one another?
As we continue our journey through the book of Mark, we are reminded that Jesus lived a life of service. He gave His life as a ransom for many (Mark 10:45). But this example of humility isn’t just for admiration—it’s central to who we are called to be as we follow Jesus together.
In 1 Peter 5:5-6, the Apostle Peter urges us, “Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.’ Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you.” These words are a powerful reminder that humility isn’t optional in our walk with Christ. It is a key rhythm that should define our relationships with God and one another.
Humility as Jesus Modeled It
Humility, as modeled by Jesus, is not about devaluing ourselves or thinking less of who we are. Rather, it’s about recognizing that everything we are and have comes from God. Jesus, the very Son of God, had every reason to demand honor and glory. He chose the path of service and submission to the Father’s will.
We see this in how He lived: washing the feet of His disciples, breaking bread with those that society rejected, and ultimately laying down His life. In 1 Peter 5:2-3, Peter calls leaders to “shepherd the flock…not domineering… but being examples to the flock.” Jesus embodied this perfectly—leading with grace, serving instead of demanding, and always seeking the good of others.
The foundation of His humility was trust in God’s will. Jesus didn’t need to prove His worth because He was secure in the Father’s love. This is key for us, too. Humility begins with recognizing that our worth is not found in accomplishments, recognition, or status, but in our identity as beloved children of God.
Humility in Action
But what does this humility look like in our daily lives? Peter’s encouragement in 1 Peter 5:5 to “clothe yourselves with humility” speaks to an intentional, daily choice. It’s not a one-time decision, but a rhythm we cultivate through our actions and attitudes.
In our relationships: Humility means putting others before ourselves, listening more than speaking, and being willing to serve without expecting anything in return. It’s about seeking to lift others up instead of seeking recognition for ourselves.
In our spiritual growth: Humility requires us to be teachable, open to correction, and willing to learn from others. This can be difficult, especially when pride tells us we already know what’s best. When we allow ourselves to be shaped and refined by God and others, we grow deeper in our walk with Christ.
In our church community: Humility fosters unity. When we clothe ourselves in humility, we create an environment where everyone is valued, and no one is too important to serve. In 1 Peter 5:5, we are encouraged to show humility “toward one another.” This means seeing the image of God in each person, honoring their gifts, and working together for the good of the body of Christ.
Humility as a Rhythm
Humility doesn’t come naturally in a world that prizes self-promotion and individual achievement. As followers of Jesus, we are called to a different way. We are invited to live in a rhythm of humility that reflects the heart of Christ.
Peter’s words remind us that humility is tied to trust. 1 Peter 5:6 tells us to “humble yourselves…under the mighty hand of God, so that at the proper time He may exalt you.” Humility is about surrendering control and trusting that God’s timing and plan are better than our own.
Encouragement for the Journey
Humility is not an easy path. It requires us to confront our pride and let go of our desire for control. But the promise of 1 Peter 5:10 is that after we have suffered a little while, the God of all grace “will Himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish” us. Humility leads to restoration and strength in the hands of a loving God.
As we follow Jesus together, let’s take Peter’s encouragement to heart and clothe ourselves in humility. Let’s pray for the grace to serve one another with joy, to seek God’s will above our own, and to grow in Christlike love and compassion. When humility becomes a rhythm in our lives, we will reflect Jesus more fully.
Written by: Wes Hunter
Eternal Perspective
A long time ago when my kids were little, we gathered with dear family to share a nice meal together. Someone had made a delicious green salad, which happened to have red grapes in it. We had already prayed. The kids were sitting at the table with prepared plates in front of them. The adults were piling their plates high with all the fine fare, including the aforementioned green salad with red grapes, when all of a sudden, my four-year-old nephew cried out loud and clear over all the happy chatter in the room: “Hey!! Who put salad in my grapes!”
Laughter ensued. We all chuckled at the sweetness of his misplaced perspective. But then I thought, well yeah, who can blame him? I mean, a salad with grapes in it is quite lovely. A bunch of grapes with some lettuce thrown in? Not so much. Our perspective changes everything.
Of course, we know there’s more at stake from our perspective than whether or not we have salad in our grapes or grapes in our salad. Our perspective on the temporary things of this world and the eternal life ahead of us has a direct impact on how we live our lives today; right here and now.
A young man in Mark 10 shows us the tragedy of a misplaced perspective. This man was extremely rich (Luke 18:23), he lived a morally good life, and evidently, he wanted one more thing for his life to be complete: to inherit eternal life (Mark 10:17).
He came to the right place. He came to Jesus, the source of this eternal life, but he didn’t really catch who he was talking to.
“Good teacher,” he called Jesus.
Good? Jesus is, in fact, good, but He’s also more than that. He’s the Creator of all things, Giver of life without end, full of all the goodness of God Himself, and He Himself is treasure beyond anything we could ask for or imagine.
But this rich young man didn’t get that. What this man saw was a good teacher who might be able to give him good things, including the right box to check to inherit eternal life.
Jesus told him, “…Go, sell all that you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven, and come, follow me.” (Mark 10:21b)
This was the offer: Trade the good life you know, for a life with Jesus.
If this young man had understood all that Jesus was; all that Jesus offered, he would have jumped for joy. That’s it?? All I have to do to inherit eternal life is to follow Jesus?? I’m in! But tragically, this young man’s perspective was off. All he could think of was the stuff he would lose in this trade, and he “went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions.” (Mark 10:22) The rich, young ruler did not have the right perspective.
So how would the right perspective have changed things? We see an example of it displayed in another rich man, Zacchaeus. Zacchaeus was also very wealthy. But he wasn’t living a good life like the rich young ruler was (Mark 10: 20). No, Zacchaeus was a swindling, chief tax collector. When he met Jesus, something changed (Luke 19:1-10). Instead of going away from Jesus sad as the first rich man did, Zacchaeus stayed with Jesus joyfully. His life was forever changed. Zacchaeus understood that his present riches were nothing compared to the immeasurable wealth of eternity with Jesus Christ. He left his life of greed and defrauding and found life in Christ, full of generosity and honesty. His perspective changed everything.
This is why Peter tells us in 1 Peter 1:13 that the way to live holy and good lives in this present moment is to: “…set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of our Lord Jesus.”
When our hope is in Christ and all that is waiting for us when He returns, we will live each day with the right perspective. And it’s not just riches the Lord wants us to trade...it’s our whole lives. Our sins, our sorrows, our joys; absolutely everything we give to Jesus is changed into something infinitely better, and we’ll see the fulness of all that is true in Christ one day in our heavenly home with Him.
So, what is your perspective?
I challenge you, whatever it currently is, fix your hope fully on Christ, and live your life with the right perspective: Jesus, the living God, victorious Warrior, conquering King, loving Savior, is coming back for you one day, and all that He is far better than anything we could ever know apart from Him. “So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:16-18
Written by: Natasha Rowden
Natasha and her husband, Derek, have been at The Mount since 2013. They have 3 fabulous teenage boys, Cole, Max, and Seth. Derek and Natasha lead a community group on Sunday mornings, and Natasha loves making God known through the teaching of His word by writing and leading Bible studies for women.
Humility
It has been a joy over the last decade to serve so closely with others through the ministry of biblical counseling. I have personally been humbled as a counselor and watched others model humility. It is a privilege to be used by the Lord to share some of the deepest and darkest moments in the lives of others. God has used these moments to help me grow in having a heart of humility. I realized that when trying to help others, I often wanted to know all the answers right away and struggled with being patient. In the seasons that my own personal life felt overwhelming, I struggled to sacrifice my time and energy to serve another. In my pride, I battled self-pity, feeling unqualified, unworthy, and underappreciated. I caught myself many times trying to do things in my own effort, taking my eyes off the Lord. Thankfully, in my weariness, Jesus invited me to come to Him to find rest (Matt 11:28-30). My heart needed to draw near to Jesus and gain a deeper dependence on the Lord. This need for personal growth in humility was true then, and it is still true today.
In order for us to discuss humility, we must first take a look at what scripture says about pride. “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” James 4:6.
Pride is when our heart becomes consumed with self. It can be exhibited in selfish ambitions, arrogance, and boasting in our accomplishments. Ultimately, it is a worship of self. It is dangerous because it is rooted in giving glory to ourselves when the glory belongs to God alone. When we seek self-exaltation instead of rightly worshiping Him, our fellowship with the Lord is hindered (Psalm 10:4). Pride will blind us into thinking we have no need for God, and our thoughts and our actions become all about "my happiness,” “my self-worth,” “my life,” “my feelings,” for “my benefit,” and in "my control.”
What Scripture reveals about pride:
Pride is an “abomination to the LORD” (Prov 16:5).
Pride makes one hopeless (Prov 26:12).
Pride comes before disgrace (Prov 11:2).
Pride goes before destruction (Prov 16:18-19; 18:12).
Pride causes calamity (Prov 28:14).
Pride is wicked and sinful (Prov 21:4).
A major consequence of pride is a hardened heart. This creates self-delusion that makes us overly confident in our own ability, which in turn makes us unteachable and hinders our maturity. A hardened heart also shifts blame and takes no ownership in wrong-doing, which will never allow us to walk in true repentance (Eph 4:17-19). An impenitent heart is rebellion, and God’s righteous judgment will be revealed against such sin (Rom 2:5). Pride says: “I’m strong enough,” “recognize me,” “serve me,” “my way,” “love me,” “approve of me,” “elevate me,” “my accomplishments,” “my self-worth,” “my desires,” “my life.”
Feeling convicted yet? I know I am! Let us now take a look at what scripture says about humility. “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” James 4:6.
Humble is when our heart dies to self. We recognize our inability to save anyone and acknowledge our own need for salvation. Our worthlessness has been exchanged for His infinite worth. It is right worship of God alone. Jesus is our ultimate model for humility, as One with great power but humbled Himself as a servant even to death on the cross (Phil 2:8). Through Christ Jesus we receive grace, a gift of God not by our own doing but through faith (Eph 2:4-10). Humility exposes our weaknesses, in which God’s grace is sufficient (2 Cor 12:9).
What Scripture reveals about humility:
The humble will be exalted by the Lord (1 Pet 5:6, James 4:10).
Humility comes before honor (Prov 15:33).
Humility is rewarded by God with riches, honor, and life (Prov 22:4).
The LORD lifts up the humble (Ps 147:6).
The LORD leads the humble in what is right and teaches them His way (Ps 25:9).
Wisdom comes with humility (Prov 11:2).
An inevitable outcome of humility is a loving heart. This creates a selfless attribute that counts others more significant than ourselves so that we put the interests of others before our own (Phil 2:3-4). It produces fruit that acknowledges our sin before the Lord and receives God’s grace with a heart of gratitude. Humility allows us to likewise offer grace and forgiveness to others because we recognize what God has done for us (Col 3:12-17). Humility says: “Christ is strong enough,” “recognize Christ,” “serve the Lord,” “God’s way,” “love Christ,” “approve of Christ,” “elevate Christ,” “what Christ accomplished,” “worth in Christ,” “desires from Christ,” “life because of Christ.”
I know firsthand that pride is a difficult sin to address. It is hard to examine our own heart and acknowledge our own temptations to sinful pride. Even more so, to invite a trusted friend to have an open, grace-filled discussion to identify areas they see pride manifesting in our life. But, as you’ve now read above the danger of pride, I urge you to join me in praying desperately and regularly for humility and heart renewal from our faithful, forgiving, and loving God.
“Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted” Matthew 23:12.
Written by: Shauna Van Dyke
Count the Cost
Can you recall a time in your life when you put the interests of others before your own? Maybe letting others go in front of you at the grocery store? Or maybe something more costly than your time? Perhaps you denied yourself some delicacies to help a friend alleviate a financial crisis. The process is pretty straightforward: we bless others, they are encouraged, and we feel good. Praise the Lord! We are called to be a blessing and look for those opportunities to obey. However, do we look with the same tenacity to deny ourselves? The call of our Creator...this is not only the most difficult thing to do with our lives, but apart from the work of the Holy Spirit, it is utterly impossible to practice humility. Jesus plainly stated, “if anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me” (Mk. 8:34).
In the context of this gospel narrative, Mark is not suggesting a domesticated version of denying ourselves. It is more than denying ourselves something we like during Lent. This is a literal forsaking of self. Forsaking living for ourselves, our desires, and our self-motivated pursuits. Instead, getting behind him, following him towards the death he died. Jesus uses Peter’s rebuke as a teaching moment to admonish the disciples and the crowds that were following him; he was setting the precedent of the cost of the cross. Ironically, Peter would think of this teaching moment when he denied knowing Jesus before he was delivered to Pilate for the very death he predicted (Mk. 14:66–72). In this moment, Peter desired to save his life, so he denied Jesus. However, we know the story. Jesus restores Peter after the resurrection, commissions him, then Peter receives the promised Holy Spirit, and he fulfills the ministry by also dying on a cross–he found life.
Paul picks up that notion of denying ourselves as built into the new covenant; he says that our old self was crucified with Christ, that we would die to sin and walk in newness of life (Rom. 6:1–14). As part of the baptism ceremony, we immerse the believer and say “buried with Christ in baptism and raised to walk in the newness of life.” By this, we are acknowledging Christ’s death in our own. This ceremony marks the spiritual life of a Christian dying to oneself and living for Jesus Christ.
We all have the universal call to deny ourselves as stated above; our selfish desires, interests, and motivations. That will look different for each one of us. This is a necessary discipline of becoming like Jesus. He died to himself for our good, that we might have life by him losing his. So let us lose our lives and take up the gospel life that we get to live.
What does counting the cost of denying yourself look like right now? Are there others in your life who know you well enough to speak into this area of your life?
Written by: Michael Van Dyke
Awe
Has there ever been a time when you were flat out amazed by something?
A time I was amazed was when Sierra and I got to go to Disneyland Paris. I was fairly against going at first, but it was a can-not-miss item for Sierra. I thought it would feel kiddy and didn’t really think I’d enjoy it much. However, when we arrived, I immediately had a “foot in mouth” moment as I found myself amazed at every little thing at Disneyland Paris. Everything about it was spectacular! But the thing that set it over the edge was Hyperspace Mountain.
Something to know about Disneyland Paris is that they have rides similar to ours, but the rides are a little wilder as they have increased speeds and added elements such as loops or rolls. So, instead of Space Mountain, they have Star Wars Hyperspace Mountain! It was, and is, the single greatest rollercoaster I’ve ever been on. It left me totally baffled. The ride begins with the usual Star Wars scroll, the intro theme playing, and then you’re launched at extreme speeds into the bulk of the ride where you’re surrounded by TIE fighters and X-wings battling throughout the ride. It was the cherry on top that left me totally amazed by Disneyland Paris.
Over and over in the gospel accounts, we see Jesus perform miracles that leave people amazed. The Bible uses language such as amazed, marveled, or even astounded as people respond to seeing what Jesus would do. In Mark 6 Jesus feeds the 5,000 and walks on water, and then Mark 6:51-52 tell us of the disciples, “And he got into the boat with them, and the wind ceased. And they were utterly astounded, for they did not understand about the loaves, but their hearts were hardened.” Notice how their hearts were hardened though. They were amazed, but it didn’t result in worship.
When we find ourselves amazed or in awe of Jesus, it should stir our affections to worship Him. At The Mount, we define worship as our response to who God is and what He has done for us in Christ. When we know who He is, we can’t help but worship. When we understand what He has done for us, there’s nothing we can do but worship. So, what is it that leaves you amazed about Jesus?
In John 4, Jesus is interacting with a Samaritan woman. Remember that Jews and Samaritans don’t interact so there’s a major cultural norm that’s being broken here when He does this. Due to some ministry circumstances, Jesus finds Himself in Sychar, a town of Samaria, where He’s sitting beside a well. A woman from Samaria approaches, and Jesus, ignoring cultural norms, begins a conversation with her by requesting a drink. Startled by the breaking of cultural norms, she brings up the fact that He’s talking to her. He then explains further about living water which seems to really confuse her. So, Jesus provides clarity. “Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” - John 4:13-14
In the following verses we learn four things about Jesus; Jesus knows, Jesus corrects, Jesus teaches, and Jesus declares.
Jesus Knows (v.16-18): Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.”
This part always used to confuse me a bit. I used to wonder why Jesus would seemingly roast this woman in this way, but v.13-14 help us to understand why. Jesus brings up her husbands to show that she’s longing for something, but these men, which Jesus refers to as “water,” will never be able to satisfy that longing. She’ll always “be thirsty again.”
Here’s where I think this really connects to us though. Jesus shares information from this woman’s life that she likely would have preferred to keep quiet. He openly shares about her past and while this seems super shameful, I want to focus on Jesus. He knows this woman. He knows every single detail about her, and He knows us in the same manner. While we may be able to get away with putting on a mask for a Sunday to hide what’s really going on, Jesus sees straight through that. The same way He knows this woman, He knows each of us. He knows our sins, our struggles, what we delight in, what we cling to, the idols we’re tempted by, and every detail in between. He knows this woman, yet He’s still there interacting with her. He’s still breaking cultural norms to have this conversation with her. Why? Because He still cares for her despite what she has done. Jesus knows you yet loves you. He knows you yet desires a relationship with you. He knows you yet sacrificed Himself for you. That alone should move us to be amazed by Him, but the passage continues.
Jesus Corrects (v.19-22): “The woman said to him, “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet. Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.” Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews.”
This section requires a little Old Testament context to understand. When Judah and Israel were divided, Jeroboam established shrines in the north (at Bethel and Dan) to discourage his subjects from traveling to Jerusalem for the three annual feasts (see 1 Kings 12:25-33). After the northern kingdom fell to Assyria (721 BC), the split widened between the Jews in Jerusalem and the Israelites living in Samaria. The Israelites built a temple on Mount Gerizim, the location of this interaction, which was destroyed around 130 BC. Samaritans have continued to worship on Mount Gerizim even to this day. So, when the Samaritan woman is stating that “Our fathers worshipped on this mountain…” this is what she means by it. However, Jesus is going to correct this to help her understand what true worship is.
See, the Samaritan woman was thinking of worship as a place. Worship to her was something that only happened “on this mountain” (v.20) or “in Jerusalem” (v.20). However, Jesus is subtly telling her that He’s about to change worship from being something we only do in certain places to making it about a lifestyle. This isn’t the only time that Jesus corrects false thoughts on worship either.
“‘This people honors me with their lips, but their heart is far from me; in vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.’” - Matthew 15:8-9
Jesus isn’t after supplemental worship or lip service, but after hearts that are surrendered to Him. How might our lives be different if our awe of Jesus didn’t just lead us to worship in church on Sunday mornings, but live lives of worship in reverence of Him?
Jesus Teaches (v.23-24): “But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.”
After correcting, He goes on to teach the Samaritan woman, as well as us, what actual worship is. We are to “worship the Father in spirit and truth.” Commentaries go back and forth on what exactly is meant here, but both are mentioned. The Holy Spirit shapes us through sanctification and the Bible stands as our objective truth. Do you desire the Spirit, as painful as it may be, to be shaping and molding you to be more like Jesus? Are you willing to surrender in holy obedience to the truth that is found in Scripture? We don’t do these things from a place of legalism, but from a place of awe. This is what Jesus desires in our worship.
Jesus Declares (v.25-26): “The woman said to him, “I know that Messiah is coming (he who is called Christ). When he comes, he will tell us all things.” Jesus said to her, “I who speak to you am he.”
This is the one occasion before His trial when Jesus declares Himself as the Messiah. Of all the situations He could have revealed Himself as the Messiah, Jesus reveals Himself to this Samaritan woman. He culturally shouldn’t be talking to her, knows everything about her yet interacted with her anyways, had to reteach her the heart behind worship, and is now confirming to her that He is indeed the coming Messiah she has heard about. When you consider everything happening in this interaction, this is such a sweet moment. Everything she has sought after to find satisfaction has yet been left empty. Everything she has been through, yet she’s face to face with Jesus because He is choosing to reveal Himself to her. Now, remember when you came to know Jesus. How does that stir your affections for Him? He chose to reveal Himself to you and now you get to live in a relationship with Him. Praise God!
The section closes by showing us a few responses that take place.
(v.27-30): Just then his disciples came back. They marveled that he was talking with a woman, but no one said, “What do you seek?” or “Why are you talking with her?” So, the woman left her water jar and went away into town and said to the people, “Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?” They went out of the town and were coming to him.”
Disciples’ Response: “marveled that He was talking with a woman.” They miss out on the point of this interaction. Her response: “left her water jar and went away into town and said to the people, “Come see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?”” She actually leaves the whole reason she went to the well sitting there on the ground to go tell others about this interaction. Her awe of Jesus results in others coming to Him as well. Don’t miss that part! Your awe of Jesus could do the same. The Peoples’ Response: “They went out of the town and were coming to Him.” The people respond to the woman’s excitement by coming to see themselves.
Big question: What is your response to who Jesus is and what He has done for you?
As much as I love the Hyperspace Mountain ride, I intentionally left out the best part. There’s a particular barrel roll in the middle of the ride where you travel through the laser shots of the X-wings and TIE fighters shooting at each other in battle so as the shots come across, you actually barrel roll right through the middle of them to narrowly avoid the shots. Absolutely insane. That’s what set it over the top. I rode it multiple times, and every single ride, that was the thing that blew my mind.
When it comes to worship, the thing that will leave us in awe is not the setting, who is leading worship, the day we’ve had, or anything else. It’s who Jesus is and what He has done for us. When we find ourselves in awe of Jesus, we can’t help but to worship Him the way we are designed to, in full awestruck surrender to the Lord and Savior of the world.
What about Him and what He has done for you leaves you amazed or in awe? What about Him stirs your affections and gives you the desire to live a life of worship? What’s your response?
Written by: Joseph Hefner
Guilt and Grace
Grief, anxiety, love, celebration, pain, and struggles were common stories we heard as week after week our college and career CG would meet and share.
As Leslie and I got to know our group better and listened to their stories more deeply, a common thread emerged. A sense of guilt. I do not believe it has anything to do with the uniqueness of their stage of life; I think it is something we all struggle with.
Our group was made up of good kids. Most, but not all, were raised in church. Many had walked with Christ for years, and some were getting their first introduction. Yet one thing that struck me is how much grace they had for each other, and at the same time so little grace for themselves.
“But there was that one night when <insert struggle here>.”
“I just can’t seem to break the power that <insert sin here> continues to have over me.”
Guilt-ridden is how many came on any Sunday night; unable to forgive themselves for sins of the past (or present). Determined to help them understand their identity in Christ, we started a chapter-by-chapter study through The Grace Awakening by Charles Swindoll.
Week after week we discussed the beauty and depth of grace. Our group never cheapened grace with a get-out-of-jail free card which might encourage reckless living; they were very restrained, offering grace to others, but not seeing that the same grace applied to each of them. They were a new creation in Christ, unworthy of His grace, but willingly holding it as a valuable gift. We never saw in them the danger of standing in judgment over others, but they struggled with being judge and jury over their own actions and decisions. Each of us cries for the mercy of God but also holds the attitude that if God truly knew me, He might not be as full of grace and love. If He knew what a wreck I had made of my life or had seen that secret sin I hope no one will catch me in (you know the one, it’s the one you can’t let go of), then certainly He couldn’t love me so easily.
At times, we tend to take the seat of judgment from God. We see Him as the Holy, loving judge for others, yet when it comes to THAT sin in our lives, we become judge and jury of ourselves, and we find ourselves guilty. We serve a God, who by His mercy, has declared us NOT GUILTY. Not because He is impressed by us or because we deserve it, but because He sees us through His Son with whom He is well pleased.
We cannot fathom the depth of grace God has for His children, the ones who are hidden in the righteousness of His Son. We are not guilty because He declared us not guilty. That is our identity. God is on His throne!
Blessed is the one whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. 2 Blessed is the man against whom the LORD counts no iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no deceit. Psalms 32:1-2 (ESV)
Written by: Tim Gardner
Tim and Leslie Gardner have been at The Mount for seven years. They have two daughters, 26 and 18 who both attend The Mount. The Gardners have served in children’s ministry, students, as CG leaders, and both are Certified Biblical Counselors.
Holy Obedience
When you hear the word obedience, what do you think of? For me, as a father, I think of obedience in terms of children being obedient to their parents. As a young parent, I am learning what obedience looks like, and I am reminded of how I am not that much different when it comes to obeying than my two-year-old. His battle is the bathtub, mine is not giving into greed. His battle is eating his vegetables, mine is controlling my tongue. The list goes on and on. Though his battles might seem easier than mine, our hearts are similar in pulling us away from the things that are for our good and toward the things that are not. Apart from Christ, our heart is wicked and sinful (Jeremiah 17:9).
Thankfully, just like through my continual, gentle, sometimes stern, command for obedience from my toddler, we are also commanded to obey by our Heavenly Father. We see God’s command for obedience in the book of Exodus when he tells the Israelites, “Now therefore, if you will indeed obey my voice and keep my covenant, you shall be my treasured possession among all peoples, for all the earth is mine,” (Exodus 19:5). In Deuteronomy it states, “You shall therefore love the LORD your God and keep his charge, his statutes, his rules, and his commandments always,” (Deuteronomy 11:1). This is for our good. Obedience toward God is something that becomes delight, not just duty. It should be something that we want to do because of what God has done through Christ in us.
It is in the life of Jesus that we see obedience modeled perfectly. Holy obedience is the obedience to the Father that Jesus demonstrated throughout his life. In the gospel of Luke, we see Jesus living out obedience to the Father from a young age as he honored his earthly mother and father. Luke records that after Jesus was found listening to the teachers in the temple, he was submissive to his parents as they went down to Nazareth (Luke 2:51). Later in his life, in the garden, Jesus models obedience to the Father as the cross of the crucifixion draws near. Jesus was obedient even to the point of death on a cross in submission to the Father’s will (Philippians 2:8). If you are in Christ, you are called to walk in holy obedience (1 John 5:2-3). It does not come easy, but in Christ, you can answer the call to obedience, through the power of his Holy Spirit. As we seek to become like Jesus, the pursuit of holy obedience is a gift and a grace to us. It is not meant to take away our joy in life, but rather give us joy in full as we follow Jesus together in submission to our Father’s will.
Written by Matt Gaskin
Radiate
If you could see yourself in 10 years, who would you want to be like? Without a moment’s hesitation, he said, “Aragorn.” A high school boy I was counseling wanted to see himself as Aragorn from Lord of the Rings. And he was dead serious. As I investigated, I found what he meant was “strong, independent, and seen by others as a leader.” What this young man wanted was for others to see him for what he desired on the inside. Too often we focus on external observations of us instead of internal transformation. This is why we must get the order right when Peter tells us: “Finally, all of you, have unity of mind, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart, and a humble mind.’—1 Peter 3:8
The life of blessing is a blessing to other people. It starts at the heart’s core of love, and get this, it radiates out. It radiates out to other people for their blessing and their good. It's not just good feelings and good vibes. It leads itself to action.
Peter gives us five characteristics of the life of blessing, and that life of blessing is because we follow Jesus, The Blessed One. You have like-mindedness, sympathy, brotherly love, a tender heart (compassion), and humility. They're not chosen at random or to be kept to ourselves, but they demonstrate themselves in action. They radiate out of a heart of love, a heart that's indebted to Jesus and for what He has done for us. 1 Corinthians 12:26 demonstrates how these characteristics radiate and are put on display in action toward others: “If one member suffers, all suffer together, and if one member is honored, all rejoice together.”
Because of the day and age in which we live, I'll give you a warning from my own subjective, personal experience: I found it very hard to celebrate God's blessing in my life for the last 10-15 years. I think it comes from the secular culture of victimhood. Now, listen, victims are real, oppressors are real, and abusers are real. However, my biggest concern is that people begin to see themselves as only victims. If you begin to celebrate anything good in your life, people will tell you to, “tone it down” and “Don't rejoice so loudly because someone else doesn't have or isn't experiencing what you experience. Your celebration is hurting them because they don’t have, or haven’t experienced, what you are.”
1 Corinthians 12 tells us to rejoice with those who are rejoicing, to celebrate the blessings of God, to acknowledge that He did all of this, but it also tells us to suffer with those who suffer. There's an amount of wisdom that's necessary when it comes to empathy and how it displays itself in the life of believers. The biggest thing is that empathy always looks at the other one. It always says, “Who needs to be served, who needs to be encouraged? How can I get involved? How can I demonstrate that? How can I display Jesus' sympathy toward me as a sinner and identify with others to love on them and encourage them and serve them in the process?”
May the wisdom we learn help to humble our pride, strengthen us in our weakness, comfort us in our pain, and make us more deeply sensitive to one another. —Sinclair Ferguson
The more sensitive we become to one another, whether others are rejoicing or suffering, it always leads to action.
How do you know if God is calling you to an assignment of displaying empathy, to serve
someone else, to encourage someone else, to meet a need of someone else? Historically, I've just said this, a need seen is an assignment given. That's how you know! How do you know where empathy worked itself out? You saw a need, and you responded without waiting for someone else to do it.
Written by: Pastor Andy Swart
Andy Swart has been a member of The Mount since 2019. If he’s not working or spending time with his family, you can find him working on one of his passion projects: garage organization.
Devil’s Den, Discipline, and Delight
“We can totally do this”, the three of us unanimously agreed. Oh, how naïve youth and ignorance can make us. The name, “Devil Den’s State Park”, should’ve been enough of a warning sign but when have young men ever let a park’s name stop them from pursuits of glory?
The plan was to hike the Butterfield Hiking Trail. That’s it. No training, purchasing gear, gathering intel from trust hikers, or emergency plans if things went sideways. We set out on the 15.6 miles labeled as “hard”, “experienced hikers only”, and other warnings that I’m sure were there but they would only get in the way of our goal of conquering the trail. No matter the cautions we wouldn’t let reality diminish our illusory confidence that “we can totally do this.”
To save you from the gory details, here’s the short of it: We completed the trail, beaten, humbled, and hurting for several days afterward. We failed to take seriously what it would take to make it through the hike without destroying ourselves in the process.
The Christian life of following Jesus can be similar. In moments of spiritual renewal, we make emotionally charged declarations of obedience and faithfulness to Jesus. While these declarations can be normal parts of the Christian life, we often fail to prepare a disciplined plan to help sustain us when our will fails.
The Path of Obedience
Obedience is a clear indication of our love for Jesus. It is through obedience that we demonstrate our trust in His wisdom and our commitment to His will. Jesus said, "If you love me, keep my commands" (John 14:15). This is not a burdensome requirement but a joyful response to His love and grace. At times, joy in obedience will come naturally. Inexplicably, our will, desire, and affections are stirred from within propelling us to keep in-step with Jesus’ commands. At other times, joy in obedience seems arduous. The necessity of discipline keeps us from letting our will, desire, and affections hijack our commitment to Jesus.
An anticipated moment that every Christian must prepare for is when our emotions take us to I don’t “feel” or “want” to keep God’s commands. Obedience involves aligning our actions, thoughts, and attitudes with God's Word. It requires surrendering our own desires and submitting to His authority. While this can be challenging, it is also incredibly rewarding.
Discipline is the prepared plan to continually put you near Jesus. Discipline isn’t dependent upon whether we “feel” like it or not. Discipline will till the soil to stir the will, desire, and affections that usher in delight. It is the discipline of regularly putting yourself in proximity to be changed by Jesus, with faith that, eventually, delight will come.
I want to encourage you to reflect on the areas of your life where you might be struggling with obedience. Are you letting your emotions prevent you from proximity to Jesus? Ask God to help you align your will with His and to give you the strength to follow His commands. Plan for seasons where delight is M.I.A. He’ll meet you there.
Remember, obedience is a journey, not a destination. Take it one step at a time.
Written by: Pastor Andy Swart
Andy Swart has been a member of The Mount since 2019. If he’s not working or spending time with his family, you can find him working on one of his passion projects: garage organization.
Love Received and Applied
Rhythm: Become Like Jesus
The 2024 Olympics wrapped up recently, and the spectacle of elite athletes pushing their bodies to the extremes to win a prize has always fascinated me. In our house, we watched on the edge of our seats as Armand Duplantis attempted to break the world record in pole vaulting. The bar was set at 6.25 m (20 ft 6 in), and no one in history had ever made it over.
In John 13:34, Jesus gave his followers a command. Something they must do if they are truly His disciples. “Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” It sounds amazing and something I want to be a part of. I love other believers who are following Jesus, and they love me back. The kind of love required by Jesus is specific. It isn’t a whatever works for you kind of love. The bar has been set. We must love like Jesus loved.
How did Jesus love? Jesus demonstrated the greatest love in all of human history by laying down His own life, taking the full penalty of our sin— notably our repeated failures to love God and others—so that we might find our fullest joy in Him (John 10:18, 15:11, 15:13, Col. 2:14). The bar has been set extremely high. And just like Duplantis, only one has succeeded.
To get more clarification on what the love of Jesus looks like, read 1 Corinthians 13. God starts by saying that we are loving like Jesus when we are patient and kind towards others. But have you ever considered the opposites? Unfortunately, those are what I am naturally best at. I am unloving when I am impatient with others—when they keep me from doing what I want when I want it. When others are talking, and I’m distracted and not really listening, I am unloving. I am unloving with thoughtless, careless words that are unkind or borderline rude. In my lack of love, I simply don’t care about others or their opinions. When I push to get my way and don’t consider others’ needs or perspectives, I am unloving. In my poverty of love, I act irritable or resentful when I don’t get my way. By nature, I am not a loving person. I am selfish and self-centered, focused too much on what would make me happy or my life easy.
But Jesus’ love is a selfless love, an enduring and hopeful love, a love that suffers much from the objects of His love yet does not fade and never wavers (Rom. 8:38-39). The bar has been set higher than I can achieve on my own. If I can’t love others as God has commanded, is there any hope? Yes! By grace and through faith in Christ, we already have what we need to love others like Jesus. We have the very love of God in our hearts. Romans 5:5 makes it clear: “God's love has been poured into our hearts.” So, the solution is simply to give what we have received.
But why does it feel like we don’t have any love to give at times? My tank can feel so empty. Forgetfulness tends to empty our love tank. If we forget the kind of love God has lavished on us to claim us as His own children (1 John 3:1), if we fail to realize the eternal torment from which we have been spared (Matt. 13:41-42), if we are no longer thankful for the underserved blessings from our God (Psalm 103), and if we falsely think we have been forgiven little, our love will be little (Luke 7:47).
Lord, help us to remember the great love with which You have loved us! We have received so much. Therefore, we have much to give.
Written by: Paul Hatfield
Paul and Cori Hatfield have been members of the Mount for almost three years. They have two kids—Aubrey and Jared. Paul currently serves in Worship Arts (kids, adults, wherever) and Re|engage.
The Word Revealed
Rhythm: Be With Jesus
I consider myself to be a Bible nerd. It fascinates me to see connections between the Old and New Testament, seeing the big picture of scripture which has an overlying major thread running from the first page of the Bible to the last. Even as a kid, I used to sit in “big church” because I wanted to be a part of the sermons and deep study. I am thankful the Lord gave me a desire to learn, but more importantly that he provided his Word to reveal more of himself to us each day.
God has revealed himself to his creation in many ways. Paul makes an argument in Romans 1 that through the general revelation of God to all mankind, no one has an excuse to say they do not know him. “For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they [we] are without excuse” (Rom. 1:20). Having a knowledge of God’s existence does not have the power to save; it can convict, but the natural world around us cannot convey the message of Christ and the hope and mechanism of salvation.
The fullest manifestation of God’s glory in his creation is through the person of Jesus Christ – “and the Word became flesh, and dwelt among us, and we saw His glory, glory as of the only begotten from the Father, full of grace and truth” (John 1:14).
God also gave to his creation the written Word as a revelation of his person, his nature, his character, and his righteousness. The Holy Spirit inspired men to record the heart and mind of God as it had been shown to them, the infallible, enduring Word that is the highest authority among creation. Just hear how men under the inspiration and authority of the Spirit speak about scripture:
“All scripture is God-breathed and useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness.” 2 Timothy 3:16
“Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and keep it.” Luke 11:28
“The grass withers and the flowers fade, but the word of our God stands forever.” Isaiah 40:8
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” Psalm 119:105
We should ask, why did God create language? If we were created to simply bring glory to God in individual worship, then there was no need for us to be able to communicate with each other. Language was created, though, for us to be able to share the knowledge of God, ideas about God, and worship God corporately. His inspired Word was given so we could combine our intellectual experiences as we explore who we are and who he is. God gave us his Word to understand his redemptive plan through history; to preserve it, and to share it with others. To understand him more deeply drives us to enjoy and worship him more thoroughly.
God’s word reveals his lovingkindness; the beauty of his holiness is recorded in the pages of scripture. He invites each of us into a personal relationship with him, then shows us who he is through the depth of his word. Enjoy a quiet time as His Word washes over you; love him with all your mind as you study with your Bible and a good, thick commentary. “For the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.” (1 Cor. 1:18). Believer, come to the table and feast on the nourishment that is the Word of God.
Written By: Tim Gardner
Identity in Christ
Rhythm: Be with Jesus
Maybe you’ve had the unfortunate dream where you are being pursued by someone or something. In the broken physics of the dreamworld, no matter how hard you try, your pursuer is gaining ground. A few years ago, it seemed everywhere I looked I found Isaiah 43:18-21. It was in devotionals, emails, and even on the lips of my friends. God was pursuing me with the loving truth that my identity was found in Him and not my circumstances.
"Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. 19 Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. 20 The wild beasts will honor me, the jackals and the ostriches, for I give water in the wilderness, rivers in the desert, to give drink to my ch”osen people, 21 the people whom I formed for myself that they might declare my praise.”
As Christians, our identity is found in Jesus, who saves us, forms us for Himself, and calls us to live our lives for Him.
The past doesn’t define our identity. In 2 Corinthians 5:17, Paul says, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come." We tend to hold on to our past whether it is our past sins, who we used to be, or what others think of us, but the Lord wants us to look forward to what He is doing in our lives. When we hold on to the things of old, we are not putting our trust in Him. He has chosen us, has made us a new creation, and is sanctifying us. He is active in our lives and doing new things, now we get to live in that freedom and declare His praise.
Our present identity is defined, not in isolation, but with our ever-faithful friend, Jesus. We find this in Colossian 1:9-14. This scripture shows who we are in Christ, we get to share in the inheritance that belongs to His people who live in the light, and we are no longer slaves to sin, because Jesus has purchased our freedom and forgiven us.
To continually find our identity in Christ, we have to acknowledge the battle for what it is. There are competing allegiances, distractions, and desires of the flesh. These enemies can be external but often are the internal lies that we tell ourselves. I want to encourage you to not get caught up in negative self-talk because of circumstances, what others have said, or how they made you feel. Instead focus on the truths that we can easily find in God's Word. As we follow Jesus together, walk in the strength of who you are in Him, in endurance in the path before you, and in patience with each other.
To close, pray Colossians 1:9-14 over yourself, your family, and our church.
“I ask you God to give us complete knowledge of Your will and to give us spiritual wisdom and understanding. Then the way we live will always honor and please You Lord, and our lives will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, we will grow as we learn to know You, God better and better. I pray that we will be strengthened with Your glorious power, and you will provide us the endurance and patience we need each day. May we be filled with joy, always thanking You, Father. For You have enabled us to share in the inheritance that belongs to Your people, who live in the light. For You have rescued us from the kingdom of darkness and transferred us into the Kingdom of Your dear Son, who purchased our freedom and forgave our sins. Amen."
Written by Kim Wreay
Kim has been a member at The Mount since 2006 and on staff as a ministry admin since 2014. She has two great boys, Tommy and Sammy. Kim leads a women's community group and is part of our biblical counseling team.
Repent and Believe
Jesus is proclaiming the good news of the gospel, that there is life in Himself, so repent and believe in Him.
Rhythm: Be with Jesus
The gospel of Mark moves quickly and is action-driven towards Jesus’ words and works. Much like the war film, 1917, which followed two soldiers tasked with delivering a life-or-death message to Colonel Mackenzie. With 1,600 men hanging in the balance of this delivery, they had less than sixteen hours to successfully deliver this message. Whereas the gospel of Mark is focused on one man, the man Christ Jesus, and His message of life in exchange for His death. That is exactly how John Mark expresses his authorial intent of Jesus’ ministry. Within the very first chapter, Mark gets right to the gospel, ‘Now after John was arrested, Jesus came into Galilee, proclaiming the gospel of God, and saying, “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel.”’ (Mk. 1:14–15). Just as the lifesaving news successfully reached Colonel Mackenzie (spoiler alert), Jesus is proclaiming the good news of the gospel, that there is life in Himself, so repent and believe in Him.
In the same way, wars determine the outcome of how people’s lives are sovereignly lived, Jesus is bringing cosmic war terms. However, the war is unseen, and its effects change nations. This was precisely the message of the kingdom of God through the gospel of Jesus Christ. It is news that demands a response because the time is at hand. God’s kingdom is being inaugurated, so repent and believe. The implication of this response to repent and believe is not just an event but an ongoing response to the reality of who is sovereignly reigning over our lives. It is the beginning of basic training under the sovereign rule of the kingdom of God. In the same way, the two soldiers’ basic training equipped them to accomplish their mission of delivering a message, our basic training in spiritual disciplines begins with confessing and repenting of our old way of thinking, believing, and acting, and turning toward God’s way according to His kingdom because it is now a reality.
As we Follow Jesus Together, we are called to live according to His spiritual rhythms, which begin with confession and repentance (turning from ourselves) and turning towards Him in full trust of our lives. Confession and repentance are the beginning posture of humbling ourselves under His mighty hand and it is an everyday process. John the Baptist expressed this idea as ‘bear fruits in keeping with repentance’ (Lk. 3:8). In other words, there is an attitudinal reality of us confessing (affirming God’s nature and will of) our rebellious hearts and repenting of (turning from) our selfish desires towards His desires (His will). This is a daily dynamic in the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit in our lives, and when we recognize that process, it empowers us to pursue humility. The temptation is when focusing on confession and repentance a lot, we start to feel and believe that we are terrible people, like it is a constant beatdown. Know that this is the flesh’s response to God’s work in our lives.
Be encouraged that confessing and repenting of our self-centeredness daily, is a daily dose of God’s enabling grace that the Holy Spirit is conforming into the image of Christ, the image of the invisible God (Col. 1:15). We must embrace the grace of the Holy Spirit convicting us of our sin, that we would confess it and repent of it, trusting the process of His rhythms of grace. So, trust the process of confessing and repenting—daily let this discipline become your delight.
Written By Michael Van Dyke