Love Received and Applied
Rhythm: Become Like Jesus
The 2024 Olympics wrapped up recently, and the spectacle of elite athletes pushing their bodies to the extremes to win a prize has always fascinated me. In our house, we watched on the edge of our seats as Armand Duplantis attempted to break the world record in pole vaulting. The bar was set at 6.25 m (20 ft 6 in), and no one in history had ever made it over.
In John 13:34, Jesus gave his followers a command. Something they must do if they are truly His disciples. “Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” It sounds amazing and something I want to be a part of. I love other believers who are following Jesus, and they love me back. The kind of love required by Jesus is specific. It isn’t a whatever works for you kind of love. The bar has been set. We must love like Jesus loved.
How did Jesus love? Jesus demonstrated the greatest love in all of human history by laying down His own life, taking the full penalty of our sin— notably our repeated failures to love God and others—so that we might find our fullest joy in Him (John 10:18, 15:11, 15:13, Col. 2:14). The bar has been set extremely high. And just like Duplantis, only one has succeeded.
To get more clarification on what the love of Jesus looks like, read 1 Corinthians 13. God starts by saying that we are loving like Jesus when we are patient and kind towards others. But have you ever considered the opposites? Unfortunately, those are what I am naturally best at. I am unloving when I am impatient with others—when they keep me from doing what I want when I want it. When others are talking, and I’m distracted and not really listening, I am unloving. I am unloving with thoughtless, careless words that are unkind or borderline rude. In my lack of love, I simply don’t care about others or their opinions. When I push to get my way and don’t consider others’ needs or perspectives, I am unloving. In my poverty of love, I act irritable or resentful when I don’t get my way. By nature, I am not a loving person. I am selfish and self-centered, focused too much on what would make me happy or my life easy.
But Jesus’ love is a selfless love, an enduring and hopeful love, a love that suffers much from the objects of His love yet does not fade and never wavers (Rom. 8:38-39). The bar has been set higher than I can achieve on my own. If I can’t love others as God has commanded, is there any hope? Yes! By grace and through faith in Christ, we already have what we need to love others like Jesus. We have the very love of God in our hearts. Romans 5:5 makes it clear: “God's love has been poured into our hearts.” So, the solution is simply to give what we have received.
But why does it feel like we don’t have any love to give at times? My tank can feel so empty. Forgetfulness tends to empty our love tank. If we forget the kind of love God has lavished on us to claim us as His own children (1 John 3:1), if we fail to realize the eternal torment from which we have been spared (Matt. 13:41-42), if we are no longer thankful for the underserved blessings from our God (Psalm 103), and if we falsely think we have been forgiven little, our love will be little (Luke 7:47).
Lord, help us to remember the great love with which You have loved us! We have received so much. Therefore, we have much to give.
Written by: Paul Hatfield
Paul and Cori Hatfield have been members of the Mount for almost three years. They have two kids—Aubrey and Jared. Paul currently serves in Worship Arts (kids, adults, wherever) and Re|engage.